It's not Scrooge's Valentine's Day version, but February 14th can be a bit of a disappointment.
I made a total of 19 cards for my then-boyfriend, one for each year he was alive (I was also 19, so I'm not interested in younger men…), and when he broke up with me, I'll never forget that year. Me the next day.
Our partners are fickle creatures, so there is no guarantee that they will like the gift. But do you know someone who is always grateful for good things, big or small? Our pets.
From wagging its tail to pure joy, there's nothing more fun than having your cat love you and purr on your lap, giving you a rush of dopamine. I think this is why so many people buy Valentine's Day gifts for their pets. please listen.
New investigation into pet supplies brand “Jollies” 30.4% of UK pet owners purchased a pet on Valentine's Day, with many indicating they felt happier on Valentine's Day.
“Our pets aren't just animals, they're family. So, of course, buying them gifts is another way to show your love, even if you have no idea what's going on.” says Phil Turner Naylor. , Head of Marketing Jollies.
Why does it make people happy to buy gifts for their pets?
“Pets typically respond excitedly and happily to gifts, so giving your furry friend a gift you know they'll appreciate can strengthen your bond with them. It’s very rewarding for us as carers,” explains Phil.
“As pet guardians, we have a responsibility to provide our pets with what they need to keep them happy and healthy, but being able to offer something even more, something purely novel, is something we share in the joy of.” And it's just another way we show our pets how much we love them.”
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Seeing our furry friends happy makes us happy too. Because, unlike ungrateful partners, they aren't going to turn up their noses at our offerings.
“When you buy something for your pet, there is less expectation or fear of rejection from the giver,” says Phil. “Pets will love us unconditionally, gift or no gift. But don't forget to give your human partner a Valentine's Day or birthday present. Perhaps You’re going to be in hot water.”
The simple joy that pets experience is another reason why buying them a token of your love will not only make them happy, but us as well.
“When a pet receives a gift, it's unexpected and becomes a bonus for the day. When someone is expecting a gift and you give them something they don't expect, there are consequences.” There is a possibility.
“Sure, your pet may ignore your new toy or spit out your latest treat, but they're still your best friend. Your pet will need consistent, reliable affirmation.” “But we can't always say the same thing about it. Human beings.”
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Erika Fonderwall, 39, from West Sussex, explains why she gave her beloved rescue dog Peanut a Valentine's gift.
“I don't have a partner or kids, and all my family lives overseas, so traditional holidays like Valentine's Day were days of wide-eyed envy until Peanuts came along. gave me a reason to be just as grumpy as everyone else on this silly holiday celebrating love.
“My love language is gifts. So even if he doesn't understand why he gets a bonus bone or a new collar or toy, I show my love to him in silly little ways that make me feel good.” It means you can express it, either destroy it in a few minutes or ignore it along with the rest.
“He's a rescue dog and he's had a rough time the last few years, so when I see him get genuinely excited about something, whether it's taking the stuffing out of a toy or a new chew. Even when I hold him in my hands to make sure I get the best deals, he sniffs the packaging with his tail wagging, and my heart explodes with happiness when I think of him.
“Peanut is a reactive, anxious dog who likes to hide under my bed, armchair, and basically anything he can get under. So, on Valentine's Day last year, she came out of hiding and asked if she could use the bed in the same room as me, since it was sealed and safe. I thought there wasn't one, so I bought him a tent bed…
“He wasn't really into the new bed, so I took a chance. So I put it in the living room with a blanket and some treats. And that night, while I was watching TV, He just walked into the room. “He immediately went into the tent and laid down. I swear he stopped breathing. I was so excited for him. I was excited to find him so he would stop being scared and having to hide under the bed.
“Having a reactive and anxious dog is one of the most stressful things you can do, but his good days make it all worth it.”
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